for successful / rich men. (me - New York city, 35, working in Hedge
Fund, Austrian, not accustomed to dating game in NYC)
I have scouted the internet and found some servies, all of which are
mentioned in an answer thread for a lady here on Google
(http://answers.google.com/answers/threadview?id=118961). I'm located
in new York City.
I'd like to
1) Have advice on finding the right service
2) Find true testimonials / meet prior clients to learn about their experience
3) Learn realistic expectations (ie is this a scam, etc
4) What is the incentive for woman to join? Are they simply after
money or for a good life-long aprtnership?
5) What is the incentive of the company to deliver good service after
I paid all the fee (which is upfrong)? Seems to me very low
6) What alternatives should someone like me consider (walking into
exlcuisve night club and hitting on next gooAdvice on high-level matchmaking service for very successful gentlemen?
1) Have advice on finding the right service
The most important thing is finding a service that meets YOUR needs.
What are you looking for exactly? Make yourself a list of the qualities that matter to you in a service.
Some examples are:
24-7 availability to look at matches on your own time (internet), or
would you rather do it with a consultant of the service?
Are looks more important than personality, or vice versa? Do you want
a service that will focus on a personality match, or that markets
based on looks, then personality?
Do you want a service that only has women in your area, or across the
county, state, and/or country?
Does their clientele match up with your target demographic? If you are
looking for a woman in her 30?瞑? what is their average age of a woman
looking for a man? If it is 18 or 50, you are not going to have a lot
of opportunity. How many members in your demographic are there?
Do you want somewhere that sets up your date, or you can set your own?
Do you want them to help with contact between both of you, or would
you like to contact them yourself? Do you want anonymity or not?? (Do
you want them to give out your name/number to matches or not)
Maker a list of what is important to you, your definite needs,
?畀攁ybes,??and things you are indifferent about, and take them with you
to see if the company matches your needs and wants.
2) Find true testimonials / meet prior clients to learn about their experience.
Most websites that offer a service that you?瞑俥 looking for, such as
the ones you mentioned looking at from the other question here on GA,
will (and SHOULD) let you see real life testimonials and have
references. I believe any business that charges that amounts these
companies mentioned should make customer service and satisfaction a
number one priority and give you that way to be SURE that they?瞑俥
going to be able to offer what they say they can, which is a
successful match.
Since I am sure higher profile people who use these services like to
remain anonymous (for example, on the web they would not want names
and contact info published), I am sure that thru the service, some
would be willing to come forward and talk to you or offer references.
If they cannot give you that, I would not use the service. If this is
an important piece of the puzzle, then do not give it up. If they
cannot offer it, it is not the right service for you.
3) Learn realistic expectations (i.e. is this a scam, etc)
Not everyone is going to find the ?畀梕rfect??person through a dating
site or matchmaker. No matter how many claims are made that they can,
it is just not possible to please 100% of the people 100% of the time,
which means there is a chance you will not find what you were hoping
for. It is unreasonable to make a claim like that, and anyone who says
they can guarantee a match is lying, as the saying says???町祇thing is
guaranteed except death and taxes,??right?
Therefore, no matter how good the credentials of a company, you cannot
be assured everlasting love with someone. Keep a realistic expectation
in mind not only of the service they are offering, but what you can
also expect. A company like the ones mentioned may increase your odds
better than the bar scene, but nothing is 100%.
I would also recommend checking out each company through your local
Better Business Bureau. Listed below is the location of the New York
Website. Also, not only check that, but their online resource for
sites that belong to their online ?畀媔vision.??http://www.newyork.bbb.org/
http://www.bbbonline.org/Advice on high-level matchmaking service for very successful gentlemen?
Try Valenti International: http://www.valentiinternational.com/
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